Our Divorce First Responder Training offers specified training for those positioned to help Jewish couples and families navigate divorce.
Divorce First Responder
/dih-vors first ree-spon-der/ noun
Those providing initial and/or immediate support and assistance to individuals going through the process of divorce within the Jewish community.
Clergy
Legal Professionals
Mental Health Professional
Organizations
Educators
Community Leaders
Divorce is one of the most destabilizing experiences a family can face, yet most communities lack a clear framework for how to respond. People often approach clergy, educators, friends, or communal professionals in moments of crisis, but these helpers rarely receive training on how to offer support without becoming overwhelmed, taking sides, or unintentionally causing harm. The result is a mix of silence, confusion, and well-meaning but ineffective advice. DFR training fills this critical gap by equipping community members with trauma-informed tools, practical skills, and a steady approach so they can respond compassionately and confidently when support is needed most.
The Need
The Training
The curriculum encompasses a comprehensive range of subjects, including but not limited to:
Spiritual Considerations: Explore the relevant spiritual/halachic principles, procedures, and perspectives on divorce, ensuring rabbinic students have an understanding of the impact of these practices.
Emotional and Psychological Aspects: Provide insights into the emotional and psychological challenges faced by individuals and families during divorce, enabling rabbis to offer empathetic and supportive guidance.
Pastoral Care and Counseling Skills: Develop practical skills in offering pastoral care, counseling, and mediation to support divorcing couples and their families within the context of Jewish values.
Legal Considerations: Introduce key legal aspects of divorce, such as prenuptial agreements, civil laws, and documentation, to help rabbis provide informed guidance and referrals.
Community Education and Outreach: Train rabbis to provide educational seminars and workshops to help prevent divorce, strengthen marriages, and address related issues within the community.